Duality of the mind : A Leader's bread and butter

We make a lot of decisions in our day to day life. And every decision comes with its own set of choices. And our mind succumbs to the duality present in these choices .

Should I vouch for liberalism or be a conservative ?

Should I work hard now (as i can enjoy the fruits in future) or should I enjoy the present ( as this moment will never come again) ? 

Should I have oriental food  today or  try the Italian cuisine ?

the list goes on..

Duality never leaves the mind . It is one of the prime forces which rarely any of us can control.

People think it will cease in future , but it never does.  The earlier one knows this the better.

So we know this ! Then what is the use of it?

That is what I am coming to ...

It is a fact that there are  always such conflicts taking place in the minds of people . Once you will talk to the people around you ,especially youngsters, you will come to know that they are a totally confused lot. Whatever actions they do , they do not have an explanation for it . They think that these conflicts will cease, but they never do . 

These people are in a desperate need of a single agenda ,they need someone to align their thoughts .

even  just for a short span. They need somebody to constantly tell them the reason for their actions. There is an opportunity to drive the people around you to think what you want them to think, to become a leader of this confused lot by showing them the way. Yes you need a lot of charisma and the talent to do it . But the underlying thought is that leading the crowd is not that hard as people think . Only thing is that you have to remain decisive. Realize that there always be confusion in your mind also , but it is better to stick to one thought.  You have to create a persona of unanimity among st the people . You remove their confusion and people listen to you. 

So try to lead a  small group for any initiative or try to decide for your friends which restaurant to go to and you will see how easy it is .It is not about controlling others mind ,its about controlling yours ...